It is with profound sadness that we announce the passing of Cheryl McCarthy, a beloved mother, grandmother, and cherished member of the South Bend, Indiana community. Cheryl peacefully passed away on March 31, 2025, after a long and courageous battle with dementia. Her boundless love, kindness, and selflessness defined her life, and she dedicated herself to caring for her family and friends. Though her passing leaves an immense void in the hearts of those who knew her, her memory will live on through the love she shared and the family she built.
A Life of Love and Devotion
Cheryl’s battle with dementia was long and challenging, but she faced it with incredible strength and grace. Though the disease gradually took away her ability to recognize the world around her, it never diminished her capacity to love. Her family was her world, and even in her final days, she held onto the deep connections she shared with her children, grandchildren, and great-grandchild. For Cheryl, family was everything, and her greatest joy was seeing her loved ones thrive. Her legacy is one of unwavering devotion, compassion, and support for those she held dear.
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A Devoted Mother and Grandmother
Cheryl McCarthy was a loving and dedicated mother to her children—Frank, Billy, Krystal, and Katie. She poured her heart into raising them, instilling in them the values of kindness, respect, and hard work. More than just a mother, Cheryl was a guiding light, always offering encouragement, a helping hand, or a listening ear. Her children will forever cherish the sacrifices she made and the endless love she gave. Her influence shaped them into the individuals they are today, and they will carry her memory with them always.
In addition to being a devoted mother, Cheryl was a cherished grandmother to 14 grandchildren and a great-grandmother to one great-grandbaby. She treasured every moment spent with them, creating lasting memories and traditions. Whether it was playing games, sharing stories, or simply enjoying time together, Cheryl made each of her grandchildren feel special and deeply loved. Her warmth and care will forever remain in their hearts.
A Loss Felt Deeply
Cheryl’s passing has left her family heartbroken as they navigate this difficult journey of grief and loss. Though they take comfort in knowing she is no longer suffering, the void she leaves behind is immeasurable. Her children and grandchildren find solace in the love and memories she left behind, and they are committed to honoring her memory in a way that reflects the beautiful person she was. They are deeply grateful for the time they had with her and will forever cherish the moments they shared.
As they grieve, Cheryl’s family has reached out for support from their community. The emotional and financial burdens of losing a loved one—especially after a prolonged illness—can be overwhelming. They are asking for the support of friends, family, and the broader community to help cover the costs of her final arrangements and memorial services. Any contribution, no matter how small, would be deeply appreciated to ensure Cheryl receives the dignified farewell she deserves.
A Legacy of Kindness and Compassion
Cheryl’s life was defined by her commitment to caring for others. She found joy in giving—whether it was preparing a meal for a friend in need, offering words of encouragement, or simply being present for someone during a difficult time. Her kindness and generosity were a shining example of what it means to live a life of purpose and compassion. The impact she had on those around her is immeasurable, and her memory will continue to inspire others to live with the same love and kindness she shared so freely.
Honoring Cheryl’s Memory
Cheryl’s family invites all who knew her to join them in celebrating her life and honoring her memory. Together, they will reflect on the love and joy she brought into their lives and offer one another comfort and support during this time of grief. They will forever hold Cheryl in their hearts, cherishing the love and lessons she passed down.
Though Cheryl McCarthy is no longer physically with us, her spirit will continue to live on through the countless lives she touched. Her love, kindness, and unwavering devotion to family will serve as a lasting reminder of the incredible woman she was. As her family moves forward, they do so with the strength and inspiration she instilled in them, forever carrying her love in their hearts.
Rest in peace, Cheryl McCarthy. Your legacy will never be forgotten.
